Whilst I know that social media has been proven to exacerbate mental health issues and I purposefully no longer have a Facebook account for this exact reason, I can’t help but find myself with a slight addiction to both Twitter and Instagram. I have met a lot of amazing people through social media and it really came in handy for me last night. I had a meltdown. It happens more often than I would like, but let’s be honest, we’ve all been there. I was working on icing a cake and it wasn’t going as well as I had anticipated. I struggle a lot with perfection, in that I have a vision of something in my head and when the reality doesn’t meet that vision I want to throw in the towel. My ever-loving and long-suffering boyfriend did what he could to talk me round, but like those who suffer with anger issues, the ‘perfection mist’ had risen and there was nothing he could do (except feed me which definitely helped). I finished icing the cake and popped it in the fridge, washed up and sat down. At this point I started looking through Instagram and came across a post by the lovely Made by Margie (www.madebymargie ; Instagram.com/madebymargie ; twitter.com/madebymargie) which gave me the social media equivalent of a lovely hug. I realised that I couldn’t give up at the first hurdle. If I want to make my business work I’m going to have to grow a tougher skin and realise that there are going to be times when things go wrong; where I’ll have to scrap a cake and start again or remake sugar paste flowers or I’ll be clumsy and drop something on the floor and ruin it. What I also realised is that there are so many wonderful people out there who are so very supportive. Obviously I have those close to home; my boyfriend (who I’m surprised puts up with me but who I love with my entire being), my family (who definitely support my cake business as it means they are never without something sweet!). Friends and colleagues like Charlotte White (who is constant source of love and inspiration) and those wondrous folks on my social media feeds who are always giving me a cheeky thumbs up or buoying my confidence in one way or another. I am very lucky. I think the lesson here is that life is too short not to try and not to simply give up just because something doesn’t go exactly as you expect. Sometimes the most beautiful things are created from disaster. Keep smiling and as always, happy baking!
Stay Hep, Cats
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Anyone who knows me knows I am massively into food. This is clearly obvious given that I’ve started a cake business, but I don’t just love cake, I love all food! I’ve actually got a diploma in Nutrition and have started my advanced diploma recently.
Given my love of food (and that my boyfriend is a chef) I’m very often found at most of the food festivals that take place throughout the year and throughout the country. I’ve been attending Foodies Festival for well over a year now and I have met some wonderful people during that time and made some amazing friends and I have been very lucky to have seen some fantastic demonstrations there too. It is therefore an utter thrill to share with you that I will be doing my first ever live demo at Foodies Festival in Bristol this weekend!! You can catch me on the Cakes and Desserts stage curated and compered by my super fantabulous and stunning friend Charlotte White (aka Restoration Cake, or "my sister from another mister"!) on Saturday 13th May and Sunday 14th May at 11:30am and 12:30pm respectively. I will be showing you how to make a super simple but delicious and gorgeous gluten free Victoria sponge with homemade raspberry jam and American butter cream. Anyone who follows my Twitter and Instagram accounts will have seen a sneak peak of the finished article. Hopefully I will see some of you there! To book tickets for Bristol or any of the other Foodies, visit their website http://foodiesfestival.com/ If you can’t come and see my demo, you’ll definitely find me wandering around at most of the other venues! Stay Hep, Cats Having been given the opportunity to donate to people in the local community today via Big Red Boxes outside the supermarket, I was reminded of how passionate I am about the fact that nobody should go hungry. Being such a foodie, and realising that I can be quite wasteful when it comes to food, I really feel it is important to be able to give back and help those in need.
I have been aware of food banks for a very long time, but I have noticed that they don't seem to receive a lot of publicity and many people don't know where their local bank is either to donate or to get help. I certainly don't know where a food bank is near me. I am thrilled to see that supermarkets (Tesco and Sainsbury's) are donating surplus food and also having volunteers and representatives of the local food banks at the stores to collect any offerings shoppers might want to donate, but I'm not sure that this is enough. So many people now buy their groceries online and I thought it would be great to be able to donate to a food bank when ordering online. Either you choose the products you want to donate or you choose an amount you want to donate and the food bank can choose products adding up to this amount based on what they require at any given time. Doing this means that the customer doesn't have to do anything bar spend a few extra pounds or pence. The basic ranges of tinned vegetables in nearly all the stores cost little more than 20p per can and these are invaluable to those who cannot afford to eat. Given this, I have started a petition to get supermarkets to start allowing us to do this and work more closely with food banks to get food to those who really need it. If you care about this basic right as much as I do, please sign the petition. https://www.change.org/p/tesco-food-bank-donation-with-your-online-food-shop Thank you. We all hear talk of gluten-free this and gluten-free that, and I think there has been a lot of confusion about what it all means and why one would avoid gluten even with a balanced diet.
First of all, let’s have a look at what gluten actually is… Gluten is a mixture of proteins. It’s composed of gliadin and glutenin which join together with starch found in wheat and related grains. The common misconception is that gluten is in wheat, but in fact, it’s only formed with these three proteins join together. As we all know (or those of us who watch Great British Bake Off on repeat (oh no wait, maybe that’s just me), gluten is the thing that gives bread its rise and elasticity. It is the glue (in fact, gluten is actually Latin for glue) that holds foods together. Coeliac disease has become more recognized in recent years, and it’s an incredibly debilitating condition, symptoms of which are often mistaken for IBS or other inflammatory bowel conditions, and sometimes lactose intolerance. Those who suffer with the disease are allergic to gluten, and eating even small amounts can cause serious issues. Many people with the disease have other ailments such as osteoporosis (as their bodies are unable to absorb sufficient levels of calcium), anaemia and in women, irregular periods, infertility and increased risk of miscarriage. A lot of people with IBS assume they have issues with gluten, and gluten intolerance has had a lot of news coverage of late with many people adopting a gluten-free lifestyle without truly understanding why. I have discovered in my bid to deal with my own food issues that gluten intolerance is a bit of a myth. Many people experience wind and bloating after consuming bread and in turn adopt a gluten-free diet. When they see their symptoms improve, they automatically assume they are/were suffering with a gluten intolerance. What the majority of people don’t realise is that it is actually wheat that is the problem. Since starting my low FODMAP diet I have had to exclude wheat from my diet entirely. This has meant eating a lot of gluten-free foods mainly because the ingredients used in the manufacture of these products do not contain wheat or related grains (like barley, rye and spelt). They are made with rice, tapioca, potato etc and therefore do not irritate the gut in the same way that wheat does. There are also those who may suffer with issues related to yeast. A good (but incredibly gross) way to test for yeast issues is to spit into a glass of water as soon as you wake up and if it sinks you’ve likely got an issue going on. Sometimes it may float and some tendrils will sink to the bottom, this is an indicator that you should potentially watch your intake of yeast. If it just floats, you’re fine (phew!) Did you know that yeast intolerances can cause acne? I came across this fact when trying to deal with my own problems with adult acne several years ago. If you are suffering from wheat sensitivity, this doesn’t mean you have to completely remove wheat from your diet. Some people are more sensitive than others, and there are certain wheat based products which may not cause any reactions to some. If you have removed wheat from your diet and want to reintroduce it, do it slowly. Please don’t start with bread!! Start with pasta, and perhaps some Weetabix. Remember that a lot of processed bread contains a lot of additives that are not good for you. Have a go at making your own so you know exactly what is going into your body - soda bread is a brilliant way to begin and can be made from start to finish in about 40 minutes. This is a great bread to eat if you have yeast-related problems as there is no yeast in this at all. Sourdough bread contains natural yeast so may be better tolerated (it also has a brilliant sort of tangy flavour you don’t get with any other types of bread). As I said, I have cut wheat out of my diet completely and whilst it’s tough at times to find things to eat on menus in restaurants, cooking for yourself doesn’t have to be limited. There are so many brilliant gluten-, wheat- and dairy-free products out there that you can substitute for your standard wheat-heavy products, plus it’s a great way of learning to use different grains! Instead of pasta as an accompaniment, try quinoa, rice, lentils (full of protein) or buckwheat, which despite the name is not related to wheat (it’s not a grass) but is related to sorrel and rhubarb (yum!). If you’re suffering from any digestive related problems, please visit your GP to ensure there is nothing serious going on. They can diagnose IBS, IBD and Coeliac disease and will advise you on how to proceed in a healthy way. Don’t exclude food groups from your diet completely without prior advice from a professional as this can cause more harm than good. It's time to make a change. The more I talk to different types of people, the more I realise how short life is and that one shouldn't remain in a position that makes them unhappy. Whilst I agree that if you can't change something you should change your attitude towards it (which in some cases feels impossible, believe me, I know!), I also think that we should all do what we can to be happy in the NOW.
This weekend I met a lovely lady who is a dear friend of my boyfriend's mum. She seemed to really love my style and over the course of the day discussing various aspects of life, she hammered home to me that I must remain strong and keep my uniqueness and individuality and that life is far too short to be anything but happy. Happiness, of course, is subjective, and one cannot be euphoric constantly - we need the low moments to be able to appreciate the high moments - but for me happiness is a feeling of contentment and peace. I have had fleeting moments of this in my life and am incredibly lucky to have experienced so many more since meeting my boyfriend and having a dog, but of course, I would like to feel at peace the majority of the time. I am starting to think that (whilst I'm not ancient) I am getting older and I should start ensuring that the rest of my life is as happy and peaceful as it can possibly be, so I need to start making some changes. I need to stop telling myself I can't do things and start having a go, I need to remove toxic people and negative energy from my life. I have a list (albeit a short one) of things I really want to do and there's no reason why I shouldn't try to achieve all of these things. Watch this space; I might post next week telling you all my black dog has come back out to play or I may tell you that I've managed to put together a modelling portfolio and have perhaps got some work, or that I have completed a novel or been commissioned to make a cake for an event. Who knows what will happen tomorrow, but what I do know is that I need to make my tomorrow be the best it can be without forgetting that it isn't promised and ensuring that I enjoy the peace and contentment I have in my life today. I hope you can all do the same - do something today that you have always wanted to do; whether it's telling someone you love them, telling someone you don't like the way they speak to you, booking a holiday or speaking to a stranger. It doesn't matter, just embrace life and everything it offers you. It's too short not to. |
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